The Simply Complex Account to Parenthood
The true account of a Southern mamas journey into parenthood and beyond
Saturday, July 28, 2012
Separation Anxiety?
Thursday, July 26, 2012
Days Go By...
But it does get much better. Once that beautiful babe starts sleeping through the night, which Lady S did at 9 months, you won't know what to do with yourself. It will be like God himself came down and blessed you with his holy grace. But you won't know what to do with all that free time. Maybe wash and fold mounds of baby clothes. Perhaps dust your house that has dust bunnies doing the cha cha slide all over it. Or perhaps find the strength to see if your mojo still works. In any case, it's a joyous occasion.
After the kiddo becomes mobile, the fun starts! Your house will never be the same. But this is when your child's personality really begins to shine. I will say that 10 months until now has been the best time of our lives. The language development is astounding. Lady S picks up on words that I have never imagined she knew. Note though this is a double edged sword. Those four letter words that kids shouldn't say probably should be guarded for when they go down to bed. That way you have all that precious time while they are sleeping though the night to be as crass as you like!
The downside to all this wonderful growth is that the kids grow so fast. In a blink of an eye you have a talking, demanding, loving, opinionated toddler who is quite good at telling you were to get on and get off.
In the end the days go by.....they go by too fast...but the ride is so much fun!
Mom to Lady S
Wednesday, July 25, 2012
Blame it on the kid....
June 27th, 2010 THE DUE DATE!!!!
I started the morning out feeling overall tired. Completely rundown and ready to get the whole pregnancy thing over and get to parenting. That morning I spent the entire day on the couch because at that point my lady parts felt like they were being constantly assaulted by a little baby head. Pair that with my ribs being constantly jabbed and jumped on and I was over it! The entire day was pretty relaxed. The hubby and I spent time together since we knew that was soon coming to an end. In retrospect my back hurt all day long. A throbbing pain that would come and go over and over but I chalked it up to typical 40 week pregnancy aches and pains. That night was the BET Awards and the 3rd episode of the season of True Blood. I remember telling the baby that if she wanted to come that night, let it be after I had my fill of Eric Northman and all his vampirey sexiness. So we settled in with a spicy Qdoba dinner of chicken nachos and watched Prince and Eric. That's when my back really started to hurt but again I thought it was nothing. On a whim I did my hair at 10 p.m just in case something happened. Finally hit the bed at midnight and after a last ditch attempt to get things going fell asleep. BUT I could not get comfortable to save my life. As all pregnant mamas know sleeping is a thing of the past long before you bring a screaming newborn home. So I woke up at 2 a.m. and had to use the bathroom. But it never stopped flowing...I thought "Dear God this is it....I think". I woke up the hubby and said I thought my water had broken but the bed wasn't wet so I was going back to sleep. HAHAHA!!! Never happened....I could not get comfortable and eventually the water kept coming. So I made the necessary calls to my OB and my mom. After a quick bite to eat and a shower off to the hospital we went.
We made it around 4:15 a.m and after being poked and prodded in my neither regions it was confirmed my water was broken and I wasn't leaving the hospital without our daughter. The darn nurse poked me twice and could not get an IV started. I guess because she kept talking which I appreciated but I wore those bruised arms for 2 weeks after giving birth. The second nurse got it on the first try and we were checked in. The next 8 hours were a haze of walking, breathing, positioning, and prayer. Man I wanted it to be done but apparently I wasn't in a good contraction pattern. This is where it gets hairy. I'll spare the details but I consented to being given Pitocin at about noon. All I will say about those contractions is imagine being stabbed over and over in your uterus and then someone pouring rubbing alcohol on the wound....repeatedly....and then imagine that pain for 2 minutes straight....it disappears for 30 seconds and then comes right back. That is honestly the best way I can describe it. After an hour of that rollercoaster I had an epidural placed and just waited....literally....I will say the doctor and the nurses were phenomenal. They were very encouraging except towards then end when I had only dilated 6 centimeters after 15 hours of labor and the C-Section word popped out.
About this time I sent the hubby home to shower since it was going to be a long night and that was the BIGGEST mistake ever. Thankfully my mom was there with me but needless to say I will NEVER send him on a errand again while I am in labor. The doctor came in and checked me at 9:30ish and it was time. I was 10 centimeters dilated and the baby was descending on her own. Funny thing I had no idea...my epidural numbed every nerve I had from the waist down...it was all dead weight. After giving 3 practices pushes, my mom frantically calling my husband, him going 80 mph down the road to get back, and security denying him access to get to me, the doctor announced we couldn't wait or she would make her way out on her own. So they broke the bed down and in 3 pushes this beautiful baby came into the world with eyes wide open. I was in shock and happy and amazed!!! This was my baby and all I could do was smile at her. My first words to her were "Hi there beautiful! Mommy loves you!" My mom cut the cord and there she was....My own little human being...my daughter...my love....my life. All I could do was smile. The doctor did his thing and my hubby came in less than 5 minutes after she was born. I directed him straight to her....the after birth fiasco is something he didn't want or need to see!!!!!
Thinking back on it there were a few things I will do differently with our next child.
- Labor at home longer - The waiting at the hospital was killer...and boring... I honestly feel like that was one reason I didn't progress. I need the freedom to move around, grunt, squat, otherwise progress birth on my own.
- Refuse Pitocen at all costs - I am not against this drug but the contractions it induces and what ensues afterwards is not what I wanted.
- The husband will go nowhere for obvious reasons.
- Epidural? Yes Please!!!! I know there is this big argument for or against epidurals but that is a personal decision for each woman. For myself, I'll have one with a Popsicle on the side. Thanks!
Sunday, March 14, 2010
Sunday, February 28, 2010
Excuse me but are my hips still in my body???
Thursday, February 18, 2010
The Anti-Pink Mama!!!
Thursday, February 11, 2010
Greetings! Hola! Como esta! It's been awhile since I last updated and again I promise to try and do better!
Wednesday, January 6, 2010
Making Elastic Your Best Friend
- Old Navy - Old Navy carries their maternity line in a FEW stores which means good luck with trying to find it. If you get lucky you can try on a few things. Their clothes are cute and well priced. The pants go up to size 20 and the shirts go up to XXL. BUT their shirts run huge. Meaning you may not need the size you think you need. And some of their stuff tends to be very sheer which in the winter is not so great. I can't speak for their jeans since I don't like them but you can check out http://www.oldnavy.com/ for their collection and size chart.
- Motherhood Maternity - They specialize in pregnancy wear and go from size small to 3XL I believe. Their clothes are cute but pretty generic. Lots of basic colors and generic prints. Their claim to fame is probably their Secret Panel Jeans. Its basically a full, seamless panel that is on their jeans/pants. It's nice, It's comfortable...if you like full panel pants. They tend to run between 30 and 40 dollars a piece. A steep price but they are comfortable. You can also check out their website for more info. http://www.motherhood.com/ BUT a word of the wise...their return policy sucks and they have a habit of signing you up for magazine subscriptions you didn't authorize or need so keep and eye on that kind of stuff.
- JCPenney - They have a nice collection of maternity wear in store and online that is both stylish for work and for social/casual settings. Their maternity jeans/pants/bottoms go up to size 3XL and are generously sized and well priced. To date this has been the most impressive maternity wear I have brought. They are well priced and if shopping online you can find alot of discount codes.
- Target - Oh Tar'Geit!!!! They carry the Liz Lange Line of clothing which is chick, cute, and stylish. Their bottoms go from size 0 to 20 and tops run to XXL. Convienently priced and is easy to just run in and get what you need.
- Consignment - DO NOT count these shops out! They are a plethora of items for both mom and baby to come! And they are cheap. Just buy what you need and wash when you get home. That simple.
- Online Auctions - Also do not count out Craigslist, Ebay, or Amazon for you maternity wear needs. You can find lots of things gently used or brand new at a fraction of the costs.
The last bit of advice is on panels. You will be faced with full, mid, no, and low panel pregnancy jeans/pants/skirts. It all really depends on how you want them to sit. I have low panel jeans at this point in pregnancy and are pleased with them. They stay where they need to for now but I highly doubt they will work when I get further along. I also have full panel pants for work and they are just as awesome. A little more comfortable than the low panel pants and they require less work. So you really need to try on all kinds to see what you like!
Little Monkey's a Swinging Around!!!!!!
So to date that is where we stand. In the next post I will discuss elastic, shoes, and myths...
Saturday, October 31, 2009
Bubbly Bubblies and PopTarts
Greetings! Well....we made it to six weeks and why oh why do I feel like I have been pregnant for at least 6 months already! Up to this point, everything has been great other than the nausea and fatigue. Let me just say that any woman who has been pregnant knows exactly what I am talking about. I entitiled this post as such because my stomach has been on a rollercoaster the last few days. At times I can't even stand to smell food...other times I can't seem to get enough of food. For dinner this evening, it was a Strawberry Frosted PopTart eaten only so that I can have my prenatal vitamin. *sigh* It is absolutely love that is making me sacrafice a huge plate of fried seafood deliciousness from Steve's Restaurant.
Now to the sleep....I am an avid sleeper....I mean I average between 8-10 hours a night...this is a must or else I am shitty for the rest of the day! So pregnancy has done two things to my sleep pattern. (1) some nights I sleep like a newborn baby (2) other nights I toss and turn all night from nausea and then fall asleep at random times during the day. Its insane! I have never been so fatigued in all my life. The couch has become my best friend. Literally.
And well the nausea aka morning sickness...well...its the same...its comes and goes. Its guaranteed when it comes back that it will hit with a venegance! I posted the pic above of Preggie Pop Drops and Suckers that supposedly hep with the morning sickness. For me...they just taste good...especially the sour ones. Since you have to suck on them because they are had candy, they keep you from really having a chance to think about getting sick. Up until this point, I've just dealt with the nausea and not the vomiting that so many women deal with. I hope I get spared from that.
Some of the things I have found that help are:
- Never let your tummy get empty. Always have something to eat handy. For me, nothing looks good...no food...I crave certain things but the slightest smell can turn me off. Saltines are the worse but they do help.
- Always have water and/or ginger ale handy. Most ginger ale in the store is nothing by sugar water. Try your local natural foods store to find real ginger ale. It seems to work best when cold and flat.
- Seabands - These are accupuncture bands worn on the wrists that apply pressure. They are not going to be a cure all but they help to keep the nausea at bay during the night.
- Vitamin B6 and Unisom Regimine - This is a new one that I didn't believe until I tried it myself. Most women take between 30-75 mg of B6 a day and 1/2 of a Unisom at night to help with sleep. For some women it works like a charm. I have been taking 50 mg of B6 in the morning with breakfast and 25 mg in the late afternoon. So far it has been working. Just a few waves of nausea but nothing that last all day like it did before.
- Avoid the foods and smells that make you sick. Of course easier said than done when pregnant.
So as of today I am entering my 7th week with the little Junebug measuring at 6 weeks. I am not really sure how that works but that's what the due date calculator says. I have my first prenatal visit on Monday so I am super excited for that and will update with what we find out!
Until Then!
Junebug's Mama To Be